Computers are everywhere. You wonder how we would ever get by without them. Access email, chat with friends, surf the net, you name it – you can even have an online affair…or rather, your spouse can. Do you suspect your spouse uses your home computer to have relations with a secret lover? While it is very easy for your spouse to cheat online, it is just as easy to catch them in the act – without them even knowing it!

Keylogging software pretty much does what it is named for, plus extras. Hidden deep in the bowels of your computer runs a program that can log pretty much any online activity. That includes emails, chat room conversations, exchange of images, web pages that are accessed, even audio and video data can be collected. The good thing for you, it all is done in stealth mode – your spouse does not even know they are under surveillance so to speak.

Many software companies have their own versions of keylogging software, so it is best to shop around and find what best suits your needs. Most of the companies offer a trial version of their software – usually limited to length of use or partial program access.

Think about it. Your spouse is suspected of cheating and ripping your relationship to shreds. Get it right the first time round and opt for the full version. That way you are not limited to what you can access or limited to how long you can use the program. Just think, if they try to do it again, you will still have rights to the program to use over. Worry-free, you can just install it and let the keylogging software do its magic.

It should only take a time or two to collect data on your spouse’s computer activities. Keep in mind that you might get more information than you bargained for. Explicit conversations, erotic images and details you best didn’t know could be logged with your software. This is not for the faint of heart – you have been warned.

Your spouse is different. They seem to react to things in a new way, and you get that funny feeling inside suspecting something is up. Does this sound like you? If you suspect your spouse is cheating, leading a double life, that might actually be the case. The signs of a cheating spouse are easy to spot – if you know what to look for.

A cheating partner is going to suddenly be overwhelmed in the affair. Everything and anything will be about their secret lover. They will adapt to suit this person, even changing their appearance choices – different haircut, new cologne/perfume, even a brand new wardrobe. This is a key factor in spotting a cheating spouse. Yes, there are times when a person gets to a point where they need a change – but not all at once! If they are trying to impress their dirty little secret, they will do whatever it takes.

Anything they can do to cause conflict between you two, they will attempt. The further they can be from you, the safer they are with their secret – or so they think. If you spouse becomes more defensive, opts to argue more and create tension between the two of you, you might want to suspect some ulterior motive. You will also get the “I’m too tired” or “Not tonight, I have a headache” lines.

Unknown charges on your credit cards or unfamiliar numbers on your phone bill could also indicate your spouse is cheating. Buying gifts for a secret lover is a normal part of the game, and if they are not together all the time, there will be phone conversations. Another indicator is more than normal time online – probably chatting or emailing them. You will also notice that they virtually sprint to get the bills before you – that way can cover their tracks.

Lately your spouse has been spending a ton of time on your home computer, sometimes staying on late into the night after you already have gone to bed. Reasons (or excuses) include online games, research (ha!), maybe even comparison shopping for a new toy. How come they never seem to mention visiting chat rooms or other social sites? What you might find out is that online games, research and a new toy take on a whole new meaning. Lucky for you, they won’t have to ever tell you what they are doing online again! Read on and find out why.

The first time you catch your spouse in a lie regarding their online activity will bring with it a sense of triumph and victory! What would you say if it was possible to track your spouse’s online shenanigans right down to images of the websites they visit, the emails they read and write, even the conversations they have? There is software available that hides in the background of your computer logging virtually everything. When you are ready to check, simply access the data through a private login.

Word of warning. You may not be prepared to see and read all that you find! Be ready for shock. The contents could include secret conversations, transferring of explicit images, and probably a new perspective and appreciation (or dis-appreciation) of your spouse.

Keylogging software is available in many different styles and formats, and choosing the best for you might take a bit of looking. Many of the better ones will offer a trial version that might limited its features or expire after a set period of time. In my opinion it is better to get a full version outright. You don’t want to miss what could be your only chance to catch them in the act.