Catch a Cheating Spouse – How Sneaky Do They Really Think They Are?

You don’t need a bloodhound to catch a cheating spouse. With a trained eye, it is pretty easy to see the red flags of infidelity. If you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, and want more concrete evidence, then read along. Here are some insider cheater “tip-offs” that will stop their secret double life in its tracks!

Tip-Off #1 – Their New Look

Your cheating spouse probably thinks they have found the one they will be with for the rest of their life. They will do anything to impress them, even change aspects of their appearance. It might be a new cologne/perfume they received as a gift. Maybe their secret love interest likes a partner in the latest clothing trends. Whatever the case is, sudden and sometimes drastic changes to appearance might stem from a secret love affair.

Tip-Off #2 – The Daze

When you are in love, there is nothing else you can think about! Your spouse will likely spend all day lost in thought. They become overly distracted and have little desire to do anything, after all, it might interfere with this dreamy time. They probably will pass on getting involved in group activities as well.

Tip-Off #3 – “Working” Late

So when they call to tell you they need to stay late at work, do you sometimes wonder if that is all they are doing? Once in a while they might need to work late, but if it becomes more of a regular thing, you will probably want to investigate further. I would even suggest you drop in on them with a surprise late night snack – they should really appreciate that!

Tip-Off #4 – In Your Face!

To help distance themselves from you they probably will start to become more defensive and argumentative. If they choose to start fights out of the blue, you better know what is behind it. The thought process is this: get you mad, spent more time apart.

Tip-Off #5 – “Not Tonight, Honey…”

This one should be pretty obvious. Changes to your sex life usually is a sign of something else. It might not necessarily be another person, as other stresses like money and work can take its toll. Show concern and try to get to the reasons. If they are not willing to talk (everyone likes to whine) you might want to consider another person giving them what they need.