Catch a Cheating Spouse – No Relationship is Safe, 7 Reasons to Worry

Many times the goings on of a cheating spouse go undetected, the victim only finding out when it is too late. Most of the time, a happy marriage is assumed, the last thing expected is infidelity. Unfortunately, seemingly strong relationships have been destroyed by the double life of a cheating spouse. You may or may not suspect your spouse is cheating on you at this point. I have you wondering now, don’t I. With that said, here are some plainly obvious red flags that will alert you to a cheating spouse.

Your spouse spends more time away from home.

This might include late nights at work, out of town business trips and leaving extra early for work. While on their own they could be legitimate, showing added interest in their work through visits and phone calls might reveal more than you expected.

Your spouse has a sudden change in appearance.

New relationships can reshape the interests and appearance of a cheating spouse. To impress this new lover, who might like a man with a buzz cut, could lead your spouse and his normally full head of hair to the barber. Look also for changes in clothing fashions, colognes/perfumes, and even exercise regimes.

Your spouse seems lost in “la-la” land.

You might start to catch your spouse daydreaming more than normal. They could be less inclined to do things around the house as they spend every waking moment re-visiting those recent getaways with their new flame. If they spend an extra amount of time staring out the window, it is less likely due to a sudden interest in passing traffic!

Your spouse is distant when it comes to your intimate life.

If they are “getting it” elsewhere, you probably are going to find your sex life lacking. They have become close and intimate with another person, and it would take extra effort on their part to seem interested in you. So why bother? Sorry that seems harsh, but that’s the fact of the matter.

Your spouse is argumentative.

Argument equals less time associating with you and a way to easily distance themselves from you. Watch for them to begin to pick a fight about the most basic things. They probably are guilt-ridden and the less time they have to face you, the better for them.

Your spouse is paranoid.

Do you notice your spouse looking over their shoulder a lot, or maybe jumping every time the phone rings? With this huge secret they must bear, they have a need to be extra careful and cautious. To ease their own minds, you might get twenty questions every time you answer a call or go out on your own.

Your spouse has unknown expenses on your credit cards and bank account.

Showering a new love in material things is all part of creating an impression. If you see extra expenses on a credit card or a dwindling balance on your bank account, you probably want to investigate further.